Section 159 The Way to Master the Temper1
A London (S. 157, N. 4) merchant, having2 a dispute with a Quaker concerning a business account, determined3 to institute a law-suit against him. Desirous of amicably settling4 the matter, the Quaker called at the house of the merchant, when5 the latter became so enraged that he vehemently6 declared to his servant that he would (App. §§ 28 and 30) not see his opponent. “Well, friend,” said the Quaker quietly, “may7 God put thee in a better mind.” The merchant was8 subdued by the kindness of the reply, and, after careful consideration, became convinced that9 he was wrong. He sent10 for the Quaker, and11 after making a humble apology, he asked: “How were you able to bear my abuse11 with so much patience?” “Friend,” replied the Quaker, “I was naturally12 as hot13 and violent as thou art, but I knew that14 to indulge my temper was sinful, and also very foolish. I observed that men in a passion always spoke very loud, and I thought that15, if I could control my voice, I should keep down my passion. I therefore made16 it a rule never to let it rise above a certain key; and by a careful observance of this rule I have, with the blessing of God17, entirely mastered my18 natural temper.”—Alcott.
Notes
1 Wie man seinen Zorn beherrschen kann.
2 Change ‘having’ into ‘had’; the object is best placed after ‘account’.
3 Supply ‘and’ before ‘determined’; to institute a law-suit against a person, einen gerichtlich belangen.
4 to settle a matter amicably, eine Sache auf gütliche Weise ordnen. Comp. S. 30, N. 4, and note that the Present Participle ‘being’ is understood at the commencement of this period.
5 = whereupon.
6 = emphatically, nachdrücklich.
7 Say ‘may God alter thy mind (Gesinnung, f.)’.
8 to be subdued, sich besiegt fühlen; by, durch.
9 ‘that — wrong’ may be briefly turned by ‘of his wrong’.
10 to send for a person, einen zu sich rufen lassen.
11 ‘and — asked’. This passage, literally translated, would be inelegant in German, say: ‘humbly begged his pardon, and asked then’. Abuse, Beleidigung, f.
12 von Natur.
13 = passionate.
14 = that it was sinful, etc.; to indulge one’s temper, seinem Zorn freien Lauf lassen.
15 = that I could (App. § 33) conquer my anger through mastering my voice (durch Beherrschung meiner Stimme).
16 We make it a rule never to let our voices rise beyond a certain key, wir machen es uns zur Regel, unsere Stimmen nie über eine gewisse Tonstärke hinaus zu erheben.
17 = with God’s help.
18 = my natural inclination to (zu) anger (S. 3, N. 2).