Showing Respect for the Dead
Preserve a decorous silence in the chamber of death—speak as little as possible, and then only in low, subdued tones.
The members of the family are not obliged to recognize their acquaintances. The latter show their sympathy by their presence and considerate silence.
As the coffin is borne from the house to the hearse, gentlemen who may be standing at the door or in the street remove their hats, and remain uncovered until it is placed in the hearse.
The pall-bearers should be chosen from among the intimate friends of the deceased, and should correspond to him in age and general character.
With regard to sending flowers, the wishes of the family should be considered. If you are uncertain upon this point, it is safe to send them. They should be simple and tasteful.
Letters of condolence are sent to those in bereavement by their intimate friends. We append a few forms that will be helpful to all persons who wish to express their sympathy with the bereaved.