Chapter VIII 42. Quand les Autres Ont Acheué de Manger, Despechez Vous Aussi, & Ne Tenez Pas les Bras Sur la Table, Mais Posez les Mains Seulement Sur le Bout
When the rest have finished eating, you should do the same quickly;
do not hold your arms on the table, but only place your hands on
the edge of it.
104th. It belongs to y’e Chiefest in Company to unfold his Napkin and fall to Meat first, But he ought to begin in time & to Dispatch with Dexterity that y’e Slowest may have time allowed him
Chapter viii. 45. C’est à faire au plus honnorable de la compagnie de déplier le premier sa seruiette, & toucher aux viandes: & partant les autres doiuent attendre paisiblement sans mettre la main à chose aucune deuant lui.
46. Et au contraire il doit estre soigneux de commencer en son temps, de pouruoir à tout, d’entretenir les conuiez, & finir le tout auec telle addresse; qu’il donne temps aux plus tardifs de manger à leur aise, s’entretenant, s’il est de besoin, à gouster legerement des viandes, ou quand il est loisible de discourir à table; entremesler auec le manger quelque petit discours, afin que les autres puissent auec loisir d’acheuer.
It is for the most distinguished member of the company to unfold first his napkin and touch the food, and the rest should wait quietly, without laying hand on anything before he does. (46.) On the other hand, he ought in due time to commence, to consider everything, entertaining the guests, and managing all so adroitly as to give time to the more dilatory to eat at their leisure; if necessary for this, slowly tasting the viands, or, when table-talk is permissible, introducing a little chat during the meal, so that the others can finish at their ease.
Toner has ‘but’ instead of ‘put’ in this Rule.
105th. Be not Angry at Table whatever happens & if you have reason to be so, Shew it not put on a Chearfull Countenance especially if there be Strangers for good Humour makes one Dish of Meat a Feast