The Colored Working Girl Beautiful
No one should ever scorn a colored working woman. She has been the bone and sinew of the race. She has built the churches, helped the schools and has made the race what it is. The pioneer colored woman in most instances has helped to make the wealth that many colored families enjoy, today.
In my travels, on entering Southern towns early in the morning, colored women are the only women seen on the streets, and sometimes the only persons. They hurry along often with insufficient clothing in cold and rain.
One thinks of the little ones at home who dress themselves and perhaps, younger children, all without a mother’s care, until night when the tired woman’s return to her home to cook, to wash and to iron for her family after a hard day’s work, in service.
In the antebellum days some of the Negro working women may have been lazy but their descendants of today are not lazy—only fifty years after. Statistics prove how many homes have been bought through their labor, how many children are sent to school. Working women pay the family doctor bills, and support the churches and charities.
“Every person should work or else she will need a doctor.” Habits affect looks. If one is energetic and happy in doing her work, her face will reflect the contentment. If one hates work, the face will reflect discontent, the vital organs will grow flabby and affect the health, and looks will suffer. Enthusiasm in work stimulates the vital organs, causes circulation of the blood and makes the eye bright and the skin to take on a more healthy hue.
If a girl is obliged to work in a kitchen she should respect her work and dignify her position. She may be a “Somebody” washing dishes or scrubbing a floor, if she does not depreciate her work and if she will give it status instead of half doing it and complaining about it.
Only a somebody “can” work well. We cannot get blood out of a turnip, and neither can a nobody “do” things. A slip-shod, half-hearted working woman is a curse to the race, because she gives it a bad reputation. She should put the “somebody” stamp on every portion of daily work and do the work as if she expected to get a diploma for it each night. She should not work mechanically or it will be drudgery. She should put pride and enthusiasm in her work, and let it reflect her inner self.
It is the duty of every working girl to make her employer adore her for her personal value and her word. “Do so much better work than you are paid to do that not only your employers, but their friends will take note and soon you will be paid for more than you do.”
Be ready for the opportunity or crisis which is bound to come in a change for the better. Stick to a position like a leach. Make it a bigger and better one than you found it and it will prepare you for greater openings. Somebody is always watching good workers.
In her relationship with men the colored working girl beautiful will put a higher appraisement on herself than may be necessary in the case of the more fate-favored colored girl who stays under her parents’ roof. Because she works is no reason why she should be cheap, easily attained, or easily pleased as far as men are concerned.
She will demand much instead of little from men, that they will offer more for the privilege of her society. Unless she is engaged she will be wise to permit no caresses and will try to conquer the tendency towards accepting “petting.”
She will bide her time for the recognition of her worth. Many a servant girl has seen her posterity lead a town, socially.
To know how to wait is a great secret; to patiently bide the time when one may step into the niche that right living and preparation has made possible. She will try to be contented and will strive for power to conquer her work, and herself to be ready for the day when opportunity will open her door to a larger and more responsible life. The beautiful part about this is that she will be ready to fit into this new condition of life.
She should observe, listen and imitate the good when at work. Contact is often worth more than money. Many valuable lessons have been learned while “in service.” While alone working one has opportunity to “think” and Thought rules the world.
A colored working girl is a racial trust. Her race burden is a heavy one. Her speech, actions and diligence constitute the measure by which the whole race is judged.
One need not permit previous family conditions or disadvantages of birth to hamper her progress in life. No matter what one’s people have been or are, one is not to blame providing she rises above all of it.
She must “get up” and pull her family up after her, if she can. If this can not be done she can pull herself up—up—up and be the “somebody” in the family. She may grow in character, influence and reputation, until people will forget her ancestry and any objectionable relations as well as all former environment.
The Colored Working Girl Beautiful should not fear or worry about what people may think. She should save her money. A bank account is always the most respected thing in the struggle of life.
Even if some single black deed threatens to blot out the whole of a good life (in one’s own case or in the estimate of the world) she should be brave enough to live it down. One should put her personality into everything she does and “do” things worth while. The world moves on so fast that even the bad is forgotten soon. One may live anything down nowadays if one tries.
If she may not go with good people socially, she should stay alone. In time she will make herself and others believe that this is her preference.
She should not push or try to climb; she should bide her time. In the meantime she might improve herself; she might study the piano, elocution or singing, and prepare for the day when opportunity will open the long-closed social door.